“Very interesting story about the Rabbi who came across a young man who was clearly enjoying the dish of fish that he was eating, and he said to the young man, ”Why are you eating the fish?" --- "Because I love fish.” He said, ”Oh you love fish, that’s why you took it out of the water and killed it.” He said, ”Don’t tell me you love the fish; you love yourself. And because the fish tastes good to you, therefore you took it out of the water, and killed it, and boiled it.
So much of what is called love is fish love.”
Do not simply seek out someone who cares. You will find many people who care. Find someone who cares for the right reasons.
